Love is such a deep feeling, its more than physical attraction, its more spiritual than physical. When you love someone, be it,God, your spouse, friend, parent, siblings, anyone at all, you would want to be around them, you would always want to please them.
In between love, there are so many things that can go wrong if ignored. Before love occurs, there should be two bodies involved, either between two people or a person and an object or animal. I would be dwelling on love between two people.
The first and the most important thing, is loving the person for who they are. I know so many people love for different reasons. Love a person for who they are and not what you can gain from them. There would be times where by the person can not keep giving you what you are gaining from them, would you then leave them? You can only try to talk to them if you don’t like some things about him/her, but you cannot completely change the person without the Holy Spirit!
Oh my gosh!!! Guys! This is so important!!! Your partner can’t be perfect, I mean,you both have different up bringing, and personality , surely you may not be pleased with some things. Hold on and accommodate their flaws because you ain’t perfect too.
Keep your promises!!! Don’t promise and fail, if you cannot fulfill it find away to make your partner understand. Be a person of your words. Its better not to make promises when you are not sure.
forgiveness is key!!! You both would annoy each other, you may even disappoint one another, but be quick to forgive, it helps to keep the relationship strong. As a Christian, imagine if God doesn’t forgive us of our sins??? Trust me, it would be terrible! When you forgive you would be free to relate with the person.
communication is key!!!! Talk about anything and everything! Don’t be shy, and don’t be quick to judge or condemn. Be a good listener, be patient and kind in your words and action. Like they say, actions speaks louder than words!!
Don’t be too serious or too “holy” to make your partner laugh!!! Laughter, the say heals. Tickle, say something funny, or make funny faces, just do something to make him/her laugh
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